March 5, 2012

I Hate Society

I really hate society. I don't want to be in this so called 'civilized society'. It's horrible, terrible, and down right filthy. It's not going to change because no one wants to make a change. Children are raising children, it's all about money, material things, and what you look like. Not who you are, what you stand for, and your goals/aspirations.

I'm really so sick of the people in this society who not only think that life revolves around material items, and those people who sit on their high horse and look down upon people for stupid things (e.g. skin color, weight, sexual orientation, etc.)! Also, anything that's different is wrong and ugly. SO tired of American Society and the fact that it's not changing. It's frustrating. I wish that we could come together, and be a GOOD society. I know there are no perfect societies, but there has to be something better.

A society where we could walk down the street wearing anything we want without getting looked at. A society where a fat person can eat in peace without being stared at or ridiculed. A society where homosexuals can flaunt their rainbow flags and kiss their mate in public. A society that could careless about your jewels, but your contributions to the world. A society where teachers are paid more than reality TV show stars and professional athletes combined. A society where beauty was in the eye of the beholder. A society where people are prepared for children, and raise them appropriately with sufficient help and assistance. A society where no family would starve because everyone would help each other, not put each other down. A society where everyone knows that you have to work for what you want, the world owes you nothing. A society with good honest leaders. A society where poisonous drugs and alcohol were condemned totally. A society where people aren't bullied/ridiculed, because everyone understands that we're all special in our own right. A society that understands that 'different' is not wrong, but embraceable. A society that understands that there are millions of different viewpoints in the country, and not all of them are right or wrong. A society where everyone knows perfection is non-existant. A society of open minds and hearts. A society that I'd be happy in.

March 4, 2012

Advice: Fool In Love (Breaking Up...)

It would be easy to just forget all the things that happened, take him back, and be happy (at least temporarily). Sounds so easy, but it's not. Life is hard, and it's one of those hard decisions. Life is about decisions, and the decisions that you make determine what path your life will take. What's the worst that could happen? You deserve to be happy right?

You miss him a lot, even though it's only been a few days but it feels like it's been years since you last spoke. You tell him "I don't want to speak to you again" but you're just dying to get a text, an email, a wall post on Facebook, a tweet, SOMETHING. Maybe if he would just apologize, tell you those three little words, make your heart melt again, things would be all peachy again (if only for a little while). You know you shouldn't accept just words, actions are what count, and that he'll probably do the same things again in the near future. But the happiness you feel when you're with him, talking to him, just being apart of their life makes you so happy and you can't put a price on happiness.

It's been said that the definition of "stupid" is doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results when you're not doing anything different. You don't want to be stupid, you just want to be happy. It's also been said that there's no love without pain, but there's a limit. People often interpret that phrase the wrong way or they adjust it to fit their situation, but it is just exactly what it says.

When the pain outweighs the happiness, the bad times overpower the good times, the tears drown out the laughter, that's when you know it's time to let go. It may hurt, you may feel lonely, but find solace in God, friends, and family. Find strength in KNOWING that there's someone for everyone and some guys are just frogs, but soon you'll find your prince. Don't settle for anyone who hurts you, makes you feel unappreciated, unworthy, and not like the queen that you are.

If it's meant to be it will happen, if it's not meant to be someone else will be more worthy. We spend too much time thinking that we've missed our true love, when in reality we're missing out on life and the chance to meet our REAL true love by worrying about that one who got away. It's easier said than done, but I hope you find comfort in these words, and please know that you're not alone.s