July 9, 2015

What's Going On With the Milans?



**Read my updated [8/5/15] post: HERE
Over the past several weeks there has been some tension within the family of Milans. In case you didn't know, The Milans are an Atlanta-based alternative family who gained popularity via Youtube. At first, there were some shady subliminal messages thrown via Instagram. We could sense that something was going on but we weren't sure. As the weeks went by, things seem to become more clear: The Milans were not a happy family anymore. For me, it became solidified when Stahr started showing obvious favoritism towards Vicaya Milan and shaded everyone else. Then King erased the 'Milan' from his name and started posting about having his own Youtube channel. In the midst of all that, there were other instances too, but it all spelled out the same bleak future for the Milans.

Last week the ex-Milans Tahj, King, and Dope Simplicity branched off and created their own Youtube channel called "The Trilogy". For starters I love the name. Stahr seemed to create a proprietorship with his channel, there was no sharing or equal opportunity because it was all under his name. As a business man I suppose it's smart but as a friend it seems underhanded. Just my opinion. The Trilogy really sounds like a brand where friendship is more important than business and I love that. 

This week Tahj and King posted a picture of them both in handcuffs outside of the apartment they shared with the Milans. Fans were in the dark for a while before we knew the story and even now we still don't have the complete story. A vlog was posted and in a nutshell, the three of them were thrown out of the apartment with no fair warning. See the video HERE. From what I gathered from the vlog, allegedly Stahr called the apartment's security to have them escorted out of the building. This is pure speculation but I believe he must've told them they were trespassing or did not belong there because the police got involved and put the boys in handcuffs. The information on the video is sort of vague, which is understandable. It was recorded the same day after everything went down, they were still shaken and jittery. I can see that Tahj still respects Stahr which is why I think he held back a lot and didn't explain fully. I also think the guys were blindsided and railroaded so hard that they don't even know how or why it happened. They even said that they didn't understand how the relationship deteriorated so quickly. What I can infer is that someone in the apartment had to call security. They wouldn't just show up for no reason or without warrant. The police are far too busy to just go around handcuffing people in random apartment buildings. They were treated horribly and my heart just hurts for them, no one deserves such treatment. If Stahr did call security and have them thrown out, that's just cold and cruel. I'm trying hard to be unbiased, because in all fairness we don't know the whole story but pictures don't necessarily lie, they were handcuffed and as you can see in the video they had their bags with them.

Now there are three sides to every story...Your side, my side, and the truth. It's human nature, no one tells the same 'truth'. Some people may blatantly lie, some may distort the truth, and some people give you the true details that are important to them while ignoring the rest. The question is, who's side is closer to the whole truth? We'll never know. What we do have is logic and common sense, which can make it easier to discern between fact and fiction.

I do believe Tahj, King, and Dope Simplicity (even though Dope hasn't spoken on the situation). The reason why I have never connected with Stahr is because I'll be honest, I don't trust him. He does a lot of subliminal stuff,  is sketchy, and deletes videos and social media posts all the time. Everyone makes mistakes and bad judgement calls, just own up to them. He's never straightforward with anything and gives me a sneaky/mischievous vibe. He seems to be a nice person and is business savvy, but he's not someone I'd be friends with. 

Sidenote: I wonder if Stahr will respond to The Trilogy's video? 

To Tahj, King, and Dope Simplicity (if you ever read this) I'd like you all to know that I have love in my heart for you guys and I really hope you're successful. You are all talented, articulate, smart, and beautiful souls. In the midst of building your brand truly keep God and love first (NOT greed and fame) and the rest will follow. I believe in you guys so much and you will reap the benefits and rewards that you all so deserve! I can't wait to see you guys spread your wings and achieve greatness.

Extra Spill: How I Discovered the Milans
About 6 months ago, I was browsing Youtube and happened to stumble upon this guy named Stahr Milan. I'm not into makeup, but I love the process of it so I do enjoy makeup tutorials from time to time. I partially watched Stahr's makeup tutorial and then I started going through his channel. That's when I discovered the Milans. A bold and sassy family full of unique individuals with beat faces, I loved it. I'm not a really heavy Youtuber but I was hooked on the channel and couldn't wait for uploads. In the meantime of waiting for uploads, I quickly absorbed the videos that were already posted and I truly fell in love with one of the Milans: Tahj.

I watched his coming out story and he is just so smart, articulate, mature, and cute! I loved his story and after hearing it I wanted to just embrace him and nurture him like a little brother. I think he has so much potential and he is just a kid, so I just felt a connection to him. 

Then there was Dope Simplicity and King Milan my other favorites. Dope Simplicity is hilarious and with Tahj, they are dynamic. I love his energy, his voice, his style, and he seems super sweet. King is the spitfire of them all and I love his honesty. Surprisingly, even though it's Stahr's channel for some reason I wasn't into him like the others (I explained why above). I like Keamoney too. 

In closing, It's actually difficult to see them break up, because as a unit I think lots of people look up to them, especially LGBTQ youth. Many of the young LGBTQ folks are without a family simply because of their orientation/identification. A lot of them want to have a secure, loving and supportive family (we ALL do) which is what the Milans initially represented.  True family means unconditional love, we may fight and you may disagree with me but there's still love there. Unless my family member harms me or other family members then I just couldn't see myself kicking them out, but hey who really knows what happened?

What do you think? Will you miss The Milans? Do you support the split? Are you still here for all The Milans or have you taken a side? Which and why? Let me know! 

47 comments:

  1. Love this post. And I find out about them a few years ago because I came across Stahr on social media. I used to admire him because he always used to seem like he was about bettering himself & he never seemed fazed by all of the hate that I used to see him get online simply because he happened to be a openly gay man who wasn't afraid to wear makeup.

    But after the past few months I've seen a lot of things that have opened my eyes. He clearly isn't to person who he claims to be. He lives in his own little bubble & puts out this facade to his social media followers that he is this infallible, ambitious makeup artist who is always being victimized by other people when that isn't the case.

    I've also joined Lipstick Alley a few months back to see what's up with their feud with Stahr and in a nutshell I will say the things that I have discovered on that site were not pretty. This goes from Stahr's "bleaching cream"and his "nail polish" that he is selling to his followers and also his real "relations" between King & Tahj. All I'm saying is whatever is glitter isn't always gold. This guy is as you said is really sketchy, it's only a matter of time before things start coming to light about what he really does behind closed doors.

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    1. Btw I meant to say "found"* in the second sentence. #Typo

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    2. Thanks so much for your comment. I may have to check out Lipstick Alley because you're not the first person who brought it up. I didn't know Tahj and King were so young. I thought Tahj was 20 at least. I really hope Stahr didn't exploit them or anything. Ugh horrible. I just really hope they stick together (Tahj, King, and Dope).

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  2. I don't know if I'm going to miss the "Milans" as a collective after what I've heard about them... Also King & Tahj seemed much more liberal & open in their new video now that they aren't under Stahr's wing. It seems like they aren't under his command anymore so they look a lot more comfortable without his presence.. Just my observation. I'm just looking forward to whatever is going to unfold with The Trilogy.

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    1. Yes! I agree. I love The Trilogy, I hope they stick together. Thanks for your comment!

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  3. Stahr seems to lose friends every 2 months.... He must be the problem

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    1. Yeah, I was thinking the same!

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    2. I'm hoping he can settle and find some way forward.

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  4. Well Stahr Milan is not really a good friend, I hated how he treated Tahj and always spoke down to them. A few weeks back King posted text messages of Stahr begging him for sex saying that he wanted it now and that Tahj never wanted to get "f'd". King then went on to say that he was tired of it and when you get into a gay family the mother should never force the children to have sex with her. Stahr was angry that King exposed him and they parted ways.

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  5. Omg, was he molesting them

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  6. I COULD TELL IN Vlogs stahr would post him and tahj has something sexual going on because would comment on the ask.fm page is the single can he have a boyfriend and stahr said that can't date any one till he do what he needs of him to do. And ppl would ask did him and king fuck around in the tea time question he would pick his teeth and smile and say no . I honestly think that is sick and he did those young boys wrong knowingly they had nobody in there corner and you toss them out like that and forcing sex on them . He is a sick monster

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  7. SINCE WHEN WAS KEAAMONEY A MILAN?????? TAHJ AND KING ARE GROWN ENOUGH TO SMOKE WEED AND GO TO PARTIES DAILY. BUT NOT GROWN ENOUGH TO HELP STAHR WITH BILLS AND HE'S TAKING CARE OF THEM BUYING THEM PHONES GIVING THEM A ROOF OVER THEY HEAD AND FOOD AND CLOTHING . THEY ARE SORRY AND IT'S SAD BECAUSE THEY ARE YOUNG MEN . ON THERE VLOGS ALL THEY DO IS WALK AND TALK SHIT NOT SHOWING ANY POSITIVITY. I'M SURE IT'S SCHOOL AND GED PROGRAMS IN ATLANTA WHY CAN'T THEY SHOW SHIT LIKE THAT INSTEAD OF BASHING STAHR BECAUSE DOING THAT IS GETTING YOU NO WHERE GOD IS STILL BLESSING HIM. GOD BLESSES THE CHILD THAT HAS HIS OWN. I'M STRIVING NOW AT 21 TO DO JUST THAT . BETTER YALL SELFS . MAKE UP LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO TREAT PPL WRONG. AT ONE POINT IN TIME YALL WAS A FAMILY . HE HAS YOUR NAME ON HIS ARM . I WOULDN'T PAIN MYSELF FOR SOMEBODY I DIDN'T CARE ABOUT . MAKE UP AND END THE MADNESS. WE LOVE ALL U GUYS TOGETHER AS ONE NOT DOING ..

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    1. Stahr is that you on a ghost account? LMAO Keamony snitching ass probably told him about this blog! Girl bye! You have been exposed by your own "daughta" King. Red even exposed you. And so did Paris! Lipstick Alley got you SHOOK!! Scram girl!

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    2. Girl GONE with your rants ASHY MILAN!!

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  8. TAHJ AND KING YOU TWO ARE FUCKING PATHETIC TO ALLOW THIS SHIT TO EVEN GO THIS FAR . KING U SMOKE WEED ALL DAY , POST PICS IN YO DRAWLS LYING LIKE U DOING POSTIVE SHIT WHEN YOU AREN'T . YOU BEEN LYING SAYING YOU GOING ON INTERVIEWS AND MAKING A FASHION LINE . BITCH WHENNNN??????? SHOW AND PROVE. I DON'T SEE WHY ANYBODY BELIEVES UR ASS. ATLEAST TAHJ BUMPY DOG FACE ASS IS WORKING .. WTF ARE U DOING BESIDES BASHING STAHR . UR TRYING TO START UR OWN FAMILY AND DO WHAT STAHR DID . THE THING ABOUT STAHR HE DIDN'T START OFF IN A NEGATIVE WAY LIKE UR DOING .. DID HE BASH ENVY ?MILANFACES?KAYSON? HE NEVER DOES YALL JUST KNOW HE A GOOD PERSON AND HE AIN'T GONNA DO YALL DIRTY BUT GOD GOT HIS BACK . YALL RUSTY TORE DOWN ASSES IS SOME LIARS

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    1. LOL Stahr get off your ghost account with your GREY MORTAL AFTERLIFE looking ass!! You did bash Envy! You posted a pic of you & him and you captioned it "I look good here but I don't like her" referring to Envy. Somebody then told Envy and he DRAGGED your ass! Don't be mad because Envy got furnature and you're still sleeping on bean bags with your destitute having ass! Fuck the milans! Broke ass stunt queens with clown makeup!

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  9. Let's keep this real though. Every last one of them is messy, shady, nasty. On a ranking from most to least I would say Stahr, King, Dope Simplicity, Vakaya, Keamoney, and Tahj. They were all talking shit about each other while friends and now that things have changed. Just because Tahj is still a teenager does not make him innocent. Just as quick as he left the other person's house he could have packed up and figured things on his own. If King and him were serious about not liking the sex stuff with Stahr they could have left together. Hell they probably could have went with the ex-Milans that spilled the tea long ago instead of shit mouthing them. There is something deeper to this mess than sex. At one point my theory was maybe King and/or Tahj slept with Red, because as soon as Red went ghost there was less King and Tahj on videos. Then I realized that Stahr wouldn't care about that when they probably had weekly orgies anyway. I'm thinking it has a lot to do with Dope Simplicity. He probably knew trouble was coming their way with all the scams and shenanigans revolving around Stahr. Originally he was probably attracted to the following Stahr had gained. He probably knew about the bleach line scam early on, but realized with all this LSA talk and customers publicly displaying their upset that mess was getting ready to come.So he made sure to plant information in FaceGod's big head to steer him away from Stahr. Then he must have also convinced Tahj and King. He almost had Keamoney and Red, but the goublin's dick must've been too good for them. There was definitely a bunch of "he said, she said" mess going around over there.

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  10. YASSSS .. IF STAHR WAS REALLY DOING THIS TO THEY OVER GROWN ASSES WHY THEY ONLY SAYING SHIT NOW . IF IT WAS UNCOMFORTABLE TO U AND YOU DIDN'T LIKE IT WHY NOT SAY SHIT AT THE TIME . I BELIEVE ALL THIS TROUBLE CAME AROUND WHEN DOPE CAME ALONG . SOON AS DOPE START MAKING CAMEOS ON TEATIME KAYSON WAS THE FIRST TO GO THEN IT WAS KEAAMONEY FOR A WHILE THEN RED NOW KING AND TAHJ. HE'S USED STAHR TO PROMOTE HIS SELF . AND AS FAR AS VICAYA SHE NEVER SAYS SHIT ABOUT ANY OF THEM . STAHR HAS KING NAME TATTED ON HIM HE LOVE KING . KING JUST THINK SOMEBODY GONNA BABY HIS GROWN SORRY ASS

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    1. FIRST OFF BITCH JUST BECAUSE YOUR CAP LOCK IS ON DOESN'T MEAN YOU HAVE PROVEN YOUR POINT.YOU ARE DEFENDING STAR WACK ASS AS IF TAHJ AND KING ARE THE FIRST MILANS TO LEAVE THAT FAKE ASS FAMILY. STAR HAS A TRACK RECORD OF LOSING FRIENDS, YOU CAN START WITH PARIS (WHO CAR HE WRECKED AND DIDN'T PAY FOR THE DAMAGES) THAN ASK ENVY( WHO HE SHADED THAN PLAYED VICTIM). THE COMMON DENOMINATOR IN ALL THE MILANS CONFLICTS IS TRAVIS WILLIAMS AKA STAHR. NOW IF YOU KEEP POSTING I AM REALLY GOING TO SPILL TRAVIS WILLIAM'S TEA. DON'T FORGET TO TELL STAHR LSA SAYS HI.

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    2. Fuck The Milans!!July 21, 2015 at 6:43 AM

      LOL WHO IS THAT WACK BITCH LIVING IN SCAR'S MUSTY INFESTED BUSSY?? Chile get some air & some business bih! People didn't start saying shit now! PARIS exposed Stahr LAST YEAR!!! And then some Incog did it on LSA! GTFOH bitch! Fuck that BROKE TRIFLING "FAMILY" they ain;t shit" The ATL gays don't fuck with y'all and ain't never did bitch! Y'all are a damn fool! HOT ASS MESS

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    3. YOU HOES TYPING AND I AIN'T SEEING NO MOTHER FUCKING FACTS. TAHJ AND KING AND DOPE AND PARIS AND EVNY ALL WAS JEALOUS OF STAHR SUCCESS AND YALL MADDDDDDDD. STAY MAD U DUSTY FUNKY ASS HOES.

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    4. You consider looking like a grey demising molerat "success"? LMAO! Stahr lives in his trap house bungalow in the dirty ass HOOD! Ain't no success over there bih!

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  11. STAHR SHOULDN'T HAVE LET THEY SORRY ASSES STAY WITH HIM IN THE FIRST PLACE . THEY UNGRATEFUL AND CHILDISH . IF THEY WASN'T FRIENDS WITH STAHR WHY ACCEPT THE MONEY FROM HIM WHEN THE APARTMENT FOLKS ASK THEM TO LEAVE . YOU DISLIKE A PERSON WHY ACCEPT THEY SHIT. KING AND TAHJ IF U READ THIS JUST KNOW YALL ARE SORRY ASF AND YOUR VLOGS ARE BORING . TAHJ NEED PROACTIVE AND SOME NEW FUCKING GLASSES HE'S TRYING TOO HARD. KING YOUR GAP IS FUCKING HORRIBLE U LOOK AS IF U SUFFER FROM BAD BREATH AND U SMOKE WEED ALL DAY IN THOSE DIAPER COVER SHORTS YOU WEAR . DOPE YOU LOOK LIKE HEFFA THE COW THAT'S WHY ZACK DIDN'T WANT YOU . MAY GOD BLESS YALL CUZ YALL AIN'T RIGHT UNSUBSCRIBING ASAP...

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    1. Bye bitch! And Scar looks like a sickly gremlin! Wasn't he paying DL men for sex? FUCK STAHR MILAN BITCH!

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    2. AND KING IS BUSTING HIS ASS OPEN AS WE SPEAK FOR A FEW COINS . TAHJ IS SUCKING MIKEY DICK . STAHR IS SO MUCH BETTER THEN U WACK ASS EX MILANS . FUCK PARIS HIS ASS WAS SHAPED BADLY ANYWAYS . FUCK LSA THEY SOME OLD ASS PUNKS WHO STALKS STAHR EVERY MOVE

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    3. Ashy Milan on his ghost account once again LOL we see you SCAR!

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    4. WE SEE YOU SCAR.

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  12. I love this blog post, I'm trying to keep up with the story, but it seems like they aren't really talking about it anymore. Nevertheless, keep us updated!

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  13. You Hoes Jealous of my baby stahr he doing his Thang those kids of his was bums selling they throats and asses . Chillleeeeeeeeeeee have seats

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    1. YASSSSSSSSSSSSSS ABOUT TIME SOMEBODY TELLING THE TRUTH . KING THEM TRYING TO PROMOTE THEY BUMMY ASSES FOR YOUTUBE VIEWS TRYING TO GET SOME TYPE OF INCOME ... SADDDDDDDD AND THEY MEN THOOOO . BUT LIVING OFF A LIE AND STEADY TRYING TO COME FOR TRAVIS.

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    2. he sexy I wouldn't mind him riding my DICK while vicaya ride my face since they into orgies lmaooooooooo .. oops I forgot he likes them young . Give this motherfucker a bill Cosby sweater ������������������������

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    3. No one is jealous of Stahr. No one is envious of the situation he found himself in when moving to Atlanta---allegedly selling faux skin lightening/bleaching creams and allegedly being a not so prim and proper "house mother" to "the Milans" chirren.

      I feel like Stahr has learned his lesson---don't take nobody in because people will take advantage of you. Likewise, I feel like the ousted-Milans have learned a lesson---don't depend on one person to take care of you.

      Stahr should keep to his makeup videos, stop selling fake creams and serums, and stop trying to save "the chirren" by playing "house muhva".

      The Milans should take advantage of the Youtube medium, post interesting posts---maybe even go back to the type of posts where they discuss entertainment and cease with the stupid vlogs.

      I hope they all find employment and a clean, safe, well-lighted place to live.

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    4. #50ShadesOfStahrJuly 23, 2015 at 2:01 PM

      Girl bye. Cobblestone Iraq is nothing but a low-down, two-toned, desperate scammer.

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  14. I've taken sides. The Trilogy side. Starh has a lot of major issues and its so obvious. His ass is showing and he has no clue. Self absorbed, insecure, selfish, and secretly jealous. He seems beyond confident but in the inside he's no where near it. I truly believe he's narcissictic because of his grandeur sense of self. His behavior patterns is evidence that every Milan will be a temporary fixture. They always come and go. I wouldn't dare be his friend! He is so conniving and two faced. He calls the fucking police if you say something bad about him and obtains your IP address so papers can be served on you. I can't stress it enough how jacked up his personality is. His entire being is ewwww. Yuk! He disgusts me! I predict him loosing all his friends and committing suicide.

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  15. Oh and yeah. That is Starh in the comments in all caps. Bitch we ain't stupid. *EYEROLL

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  16. Starh was territorial of his friendship with Tahj and became jealous of Dope. Dope should have been the patriarch-matriarch from jump anyway! Starh knows that. That's why Starh feels threatened. READ THIS VERY CAREFULLY STARH: THE WHOLE WORLD IS EITHER LAUGHING OR GAGGING.

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  17. Have you watched the recent vlog? Ian reveals what happened. It's sad.

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  18. Honestly, I've felt from the jump that Stahr wasn't shit... I didn't feel bad for the ppl that lost their money from his scams... I mean come on, who TF in their right mind would buy bleaching cream from IG... and next, he came out with nail polish... Like nigga fool me once, shame on me, but twice?? Nah LOL.I believe Stahr Crip Creeper ass was raping those boys and it's sad... He was their provider... Of course they should've all had their own livelihood, but still... When you feel like you have no other choice, you may choose to stay... They didn't deserve that... He appears to be so sneaky and lowdown... King nearly had tears falling as he talked about what they went through... And to think, their parents actually trusted his ass!! He's the devil himself SMH... I hope they all do something productive and not allow this situation to deter them from success, especially Tahj/David because he exhibits lots of potential...

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